
However Grief Shows Up, You Don't Have to Carry It Alone
Grief doesn't follow a set path or a set timeline. Whether you've lost a loved one, a relationship, a pet, or a version of life you'd imagined, I offer a compassionate space to process your loss at whatever pace feels right for you.
Signs You May Be Struggling With Grief
Grief can affect people differently, and it can shift over time. Common signs include:
Waves of sadness, longing, or heaviness, sometimes unexpectedly
Difficulty accepting or processing the loss
Numbness, or feeling disconnected from your usual emotions
Physical symptoms like fatigue, tension, or a general sense of heaviness
Guilt, regret, or replaying what happened
Withdrawing from others, or feeling isolated in your grief
Anger, frustration, or irritability
Trouble sleeping, eating, or concentrating
There's no "right" way to grieve, and no fixed timeline you're expected to follow.
About Grief & Bereavement
Grief is the natural response to loss, and loss takes many forms: the death of a loved one, the end of a relationship, a major life change, or the loss of a pet who was part of the family. Grief can also resurface unexpectedly, around anniversaries, significant dates, or reminders you didn't see coming.
Some people experience grief in clear stages, others find it comes in waves that ebb and flow without warning. Both are normal. What matters isn't following a particular process correctly, it's finding support that helps you carry what you're feeling.


Grief & Pet Loss
The loss of a pet can be a profound and often under-acknowledged form of grief. Pets are family, and losing one can bring genuine, significant grief, even though it isn't always recognised that way by others.
I recently joined Dr. Ray, a local vet, for a conversation exploring the emotional side of pet loss, including the shame many people feel around grieving a pet, and how to know when it's time to say goodbye.
If you're grieving the loss of a pet, please know that grief is grief, and support is available.
How Counselling Can Help
Support for grief and bereavement is gentle, and paced entirely around what you need. This can include:
A space to talk, or simply sit with what you're feeling
Without pressure to "move on" or "get over it"
Understanding your grief
Exploring how loss is showing up for you, physically, emotionally, and practically
Working through complicated feelings
Guilt, regret, anger, or relief are all normal parts of grief, and worth exploring without judgement
Navigating life around the loss
Adjusting to change, anniversaries, or reminders that catch you off guard
Support for anticipatory grief
For those grieving a loss that hasn't happened yet, such as a terminal diagnosis or declining pet

Frequently Asked Questions
Is telehealth available for grief counselling?
Yes. Many clients find telehealth just as supportive, with the flexibility of attending from wherever feels comfortable.
Do you support grief around pet loss?
Yes. Grieving a pet is genuine grief, and it's welcomed and taken seriously here.
What if my grief feels "too big" or "not big enough"?
There's no right size for grief. Whatever you're feeling in response to your loss is valid, and worth having support for.
Do I need a referral?
No, you can self-refer at any time. If you have a Mental Health Treatment Plan from your GP, you may also be eligible for a Medicare rebate.
Is there a "right" amount of time to grieve?
No. Grief doesn't follow a set timeline, some people find support helpful soon after a loss, others reach out months or years later, both are completely valid.

A Note on Urgent Support
Fearless Footsteps is not an emergency or crisis service, and messages sent through this page or by email are not monitored in real time. If you are in crisis or need urgent support, please contact one of the services below, all available 24/7:
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000 (Police/Ambulance), or
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Lifeline on 13 11 14
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Beyond Blue on 1300 22 4636
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NSW Mental Health Line on 1800 011 511
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MensLine Australia on 1300 78 99 78
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1800RESPECT on 1800 737 732
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Kids Helpline on 1800 551 800 (free, for ages 5–25)